Community Agreements

This space is built on care, consent, and connection. Here’s what we agree to:

Come as you are. No pressure to share. No pressure to fix. Lurking is love too.

Respect identity, pronouns, and lived experience. This group includes trans men, nonbinary folks, fat folks, disabled folks, and people with complex medical, emotional, and trauma histories. We honor each other’s truth—without questioning, correcting, or tone-policing.

No unsolicited advice. Offer support, not solutions—unless it’s asked for. Always ask before sharing resources, suggestions, or medical info.

No diet talk, fatphobia, or ableism. This is a zero-tolerance space for body shame, health shaming, or “wellness” policing.

No selling or sneaky promotion. Do not advertise, sell, or promote products, services, or affiliate links in this space—even if it’s your own or a friend’s. You can share your creative work (like art, shops, zines, etc.) in ⁠share-your-shit as long as it’s about connection, not conversion. This is a trust space, not a marketplace.

Mistakes happen. Repair matters. If you mess up, own it gently. If you’re hurt, speak up if you can. We’ll hold space for both sides with care.

Reach out if something feels off. This space is modded. You are never alone in navigating weird vibes or harm. We’re here, and we’ve got you.

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